80 days. Yes, that is how long it was since my last visit to office. As we all know, this pandemic has forced everyone to face the lock-downs and stay-home restrictions. Apart from the necessary outings to near-by grocery supermarket I ventured out of house only once over a weekend to get my son back from his grandparents' house. Suddenly everything has changed and yet we need to continue with our routine.
While this situation brought a lot of restrictions, it also got us a little spare time because of no office commute. And in a way it's a gift in disguise. I would like to jot down those aspects which were beneficial for me personally due to this excess time in hand.
- Time with family
Needless to say we all found ourselves around family all the time. This being new, we had to realize and adjust accordingly. Because it certainly felt like an extended weekend or something. Importantly, it brought so much more time for discussions, meals together & etc. With no services from maids, we all had to step up and rise to the occasion and distribute the chores (or face the wrath 😛). This week even the online classes started for my 7 years old and this gave a great opportunity for me to witness his participation & learning during the classes. I used to take up his studies and closely track his learning but this scene of seeing him respond to teachers' explanation and learn is new which otherwise would take place in confinement of school classes. And furthermore, I'm totally enjoying the NERF battles with my kiddo. He has totally gone crazy with his new set of NERF guns. I tell you, NERF and LEGO are boon to humans!
- Extra hours at work
Yes, I got this opportunity to spend continuous hours on the tasks I am handling and I am absolutely satisfied with improved productivity. Not that it wasn't up to to the mark previously but an increase in this matter can of course be a reason for delight.
- Extra time for friends
Well, we cannot meet up like before in person but the situation has brought in this new trend of video conferencing. Apps like Zoom, Whatsapp Videochat and Google Duo are now felt necessity and people are using them like never before. I too enjoyed these instances of group videochat with friends and family. We even had some nice task games over Whatsapp and online forums.
Along with these above benefits there are however some downsides as well:
- Trek cancellation
I had booked for a 10 days Har-Ki-Doon trek and was supposed to report to base camp near Dehradun on May 2, which of course got cancelled. I even had plans for river rafting and bungee jump at Rishikesh. All this had to be called off. The 4 years trek streak was broken unfortunately. Anyways, there's always next time.
- No running
I've not run a single KM in this last 80 days. It's not that I will be stopped from running on roads or in my community, but it's the impression what one gives by following everything like before will somehow give others a sense of leniency in the society and that's kinda dangerous in this ongoing crisis.We have to follow stay-home stay-safe mantra and need to step out only for really important work.
I see this situation is surely gonna stay for few more months. Hoping for some miracle, some vaccine to come out soon which will take us out from this nasty situation. Also hoping that everyone learns something from this unfortunate situation. We need to mend our ways and find a better way in living peacefully in this beautiful world.
